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The cravings were there but the mechanics
had simply vanished. I could not have picked
up a cigarette had my life depended on it.
This was a very strange scenario indeed.
Especially considering the cravings were still
VERY much there.
However onward into the night I pushed,
without a cigarette to speak of. As a a friend
(having great fun with my bizarre state)
actually took a lit cigarette and placed it in my
hands. A round of
applause erupted from my friends as I drew it
all the way up to my mouth, put it between my
lips... and then hurriedly removed it without
so much as a taste of it
I even tried to wipe the smell off my lips that
had been left there by the butt. My cravings
had truly disappeared.
The next week I was back with Matthew for
the second of my three sessions. It was much
of a muchness. A pleasant trance like state
during which time it was further re-enforced
that I would not like, need, want or touch a
cigarette again. I continued on another week
happily plugging along without ever needing a
smoke. So finally the third week arrived, and
so did I for my final session with Matthew.
Never having been one to conform or stick to
convention I declared to Matthew that I was
already positive that I would never have
another cigarette in my life. Because of this
that to do a third session on smoking would
only be a waste. I asked if we could focus on
something else instead to which he agreed.
We settled on doing a session for anxiety in
which Matthew both hypnotised me using a
deep relaxation therapy, and also spent a
great deal of time simply LISTENING to me.
That's a rare gift to be given in this day and
age - especially considering that Matthew
went overtime blowing the session out to a
whopping ninety minutes. I was his last client
of the day and we went well into the night. I
truly appreciated the extra time and attention.
So to cut to the chase, here I am five weeks
later and the results speak for themselves.
I am more relaxed, and I DON'T smoke.
Nuff said.
Matt Thomas
Hi Matthew,
I came to you for help in late October '04 with
a combined marijuana/nicotine addiction with
which I had been doing battle for about 10
years. Even though I had been using both for
much longer, (marijuana for about 25 years
and cigarettes for about 32 years) it had only
been in the last 10 that I had made serious
efforts to stop because I'd long realised
the damage to my body. But my own
best efforts had only brought me
frustration and an increasing sense of
weakness and lack of worth because of
my seeming inability to stay stopped,
despite the obvious negative
consequences.
Just in case these need cataloguing; a
real sense of "enslavement" and
consequent self-loathing, shortness of
breath, an inability to stay focussed, fear
of cancer or other smoking-related
diseases, suppression and numbing of
emotions, irritability whenever I tried to
stop, ridiculous wastes of money,
emotional distance between myself and
loved ones, lethargy and lack of
motivation, general feelings of negativity,
constant thoughts of how and when I
could smoke, sallow skin and stained
teeth - to name a few. Clearly, I needed
help. My own best efforts had netted me
little result and I feared that I would
never be able to successfully quit.
I came to you with a real sense of
desperation and as a "last ditch" attempt
to kill this habit before it killed me. I
could also see that until I succeeded, my
own sense of myself and my ability to
flourish creatively (I'm an artist) would
be permanently stunted. I had had
hypnotherapy before, and it had been
the most successful of all the attempts
I'd made, but I'd always started again
after a few weeks, at best. The reason
you appealed to me also Matthew, it
must be said, was because I was
familiar with your work and hoped that
your understanding of this subject and
the accompanying psychology would
inform your treatment, as indeed it did.
After the very first session I was amazed
to feel not the slightest desire to smoke -
either a joint or anything else, and by
the 3rd session I was sure that I had
finally become a non-smoker. This has
not changed in any way after 4 going-on
5 months, despite being offered it many,
many times. I can happily be among
other smokers (cigarettes or marijuana)
and not feel the any inkling of an urge to
partake, even though I often remove
myself from the smoke itself because I
don't like the smell anymore. However,
I'm happy to say, it has not made me a
sanctimonious non-smoker. I don't mind
what others do, I simply don't need or
want to do it. I am merely indifferent
when I'm around it.
If you had told me that it would be this
easy, I would not have believed you,
because of the many struggles and
"battles of the will" that I'd previously
had. I still find it hard to believe.
I now enjoy my life so much more.
I don't "sneak around" with my
shameful habit - I connect directly
with others, my work, the world. I
am richer, not just monetarily,
though this is a real bonus. The
money I save by not smoking
either substance I treat myself and
my loved ones with. I am
exercising regularly and with much
less effort, and am looking and
feeling better than I have for a
many years. I am much more
directed and focused in my work,
with very rewarding results. In
short, I feel very much more alive.
I can't thank you enough Matthew.
I don't quite understand how it was
done (all with mirrors?) but I will be
eternally grateful that it was done,
and hope that others with my
particular set of (ex) symptoms,
and I KNOW they're out there!, will
read this and know that they can
be helped.
I wish you every success in your
future endeavours, and again,
I thank you for restoring me to
myself.
Cathy
Dear Matthew,
I can’t thank you enough for
changing my life. I can’t believe
how much better I feel after your
treatment sessions. Even more so,
I can’t believe how I could have
those thoughts and feeling for so
many years and you could change
this in a few weeks.
My family are also very
appreciative.
I sincerely thank you from the
bottom of my heart.
Regards,
Wendy – Ballina NSW
Hypnotherapy Sydney Australia 0416 272 142
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